Living With
DANGER


Regardless of who a person is and regardless of where a person lives, each and every one of us at times is exposed to something dangerous. This is not to say that the world is a dangerous place but rather that there are things that are dangerous in the world. Most of us learn how to keep ourselves reasonably safe to minimize the risk of being hurt and even killed. Even when we do pursue safe lives, things can still happen that put us in danger. These incidents can happen because we do not want to see the danger, such as with a condition that is an "accident waiting to happen" or because there was no way to predict the peril. In either case, an event can occur that puts us in danger and might even cause some serious harm. As a result we may try to find ways to reduce the risk of harm in the future, ignore the warning (going on as if nothing happend), or overreact by maintaining an exaggerated sense of vulnerability.

Certain situations are more dangerous than others. Being in a war zone is more dangerous than being in a museum on a pleasant autumn day. The level of danger cannot predict one’s endurance. People can survive the hostilities of the war and be injured or even killed in the museum if a strong earthquake shakes the ground under the school.

Many films deal with danger. Some are very scary simply because their sole purpose is to scare, like riding a roller coaster. Other movies reveal some important truths about living with danger or one’s perception of being in danger. These are films that also can be frightening but they give the viewer a chance to learn about fear and facing something that is threatening.

The Films

TEA WITH MUSSOLINI  There are times when we can become so comfortable and confident about our situations that we can over assess our security and ignore evidence that should tell us our circumstances are not as safe as we want to believe. Tea With Mussolini reveals how several rather intelligent middle aged women set themselves up to be captives of war. It isn’t that they had no warning that their country, England, and the land in which they lived, Italy, were on the verge of war. They did, having been told by a person they knew was in a position to know what was happening. Elsie, the unofficial leader of the group, had an overstated sense of her influence with Italy’s dictator, Mussolini, and despite being assaulted by his fascists, she refused to believe that things could get out of control. Mary and others passively closed ranks behind her because Elsie was so confident and, frankly, they did not want to leave the country they loved. How it develops that they end up captives reflects denial, wishful thinking, wanting to see (and believe) what we want to see, and blind trust in the judgement of another. This is a common pattern that has caused many to be caught in dangerous and sometimes fatal situations when they did not want to acknowledge that the smoke they saw indicated that a fire was smoldering.
Released by MGM/UA
Rated PG by M.P.A.A.

BURNT BY THE SUN  It is a holiday for Sergei Kotov, a time to enjoy the pleasures of summer and being with his family that he loves dearly. Everyone is happy and playful, although at moments there are distractions and annoyances. After all Kotov is an important man and people expect him to take charge. This he does decisively and with good humor. Like many lazy summer days, things seem to happen spontaneously and without much warning or anticipation. Not until the film is almost over do we realize that something terrible is happening and that the lives of these people will be changed forever. Only Kotov understands what is happening and then only too late. All of this reflects a troubling circumstance that has occurred time and again throughout history and will occur again. People put faith in their leaders and the ideals they represent, without catching or questioning the lies being told nor appreciating the insidious, dark side of the social order to which they have adapted and in which they themselves have taken a part. It’s not that they are blind nor in denial with what is going on around them. Events cannot be seen in their proper perspective and people want to believe, given the spirit of the time, in what they, as a people, as a nation, or as a cause are "accomplishing." At such moment people see all the evidence indicating that the movement is truly great.  Only later, after events have taken their course, are people able to look back and put into perspective the ominous conditions that they could not see when they were unfolding. Burnt By The Sun allows us to see the world as it appeared to many of the Russian people in the mid thirties, naive, full of idealism and free of the awareness that came only later as Stalin’s true nature became evident and his crimes and the crimes of the system were exposed so people could appreciate what had happened to them and their neighbors.
Russian with English subtitles.
Columbia Tristar Home Video
Rated R by M.A.A.P.


See Also:

The African Queen
Little Voice
Sling Blade


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